Resolutions Built, Resolutions Broken

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As the calendar turns, we reflect on the days behind us. Whether they were good times or bad, the last year has ended, and a new one has begun. Below are five ways to send New Year’s greetings:

Let’s make this year amazing!

Wishing everyone health and happiness.

New Year, new memories.

Cheers to new beginnings.

Sending love and light your way.

I think I’ll continue to say, Happy New Year! Every year brings struggles and challenges but also opportunities for joy and happiness. While some may turn to superstition or rituals to plan their future, others set resolutions and goals for a fresh start. These resolutions often focus on health, finances, relationships, or personal growth, aiming to create a better version of oneself.

Sticking to resolutions, however, can be a challenge. In many cases, these goals also involve enjoying time with family and friends. Resolutions that prioritize improving social connections might be particularly valuable. Building strong camaraderie is vital for maintaining cognitive health and emotional well-being.

Making Resolutions That Last

Experts suggest that success lies in setting realistic goals and visualizing a clear path to achieve them. Practical strategies can help make resolutions stick. One widely used framework is the SMART method, which stands for:

 

|S|pecific
|M|easurable
|A|ttainable
|R|elevant
|T|ime-Bound

 

By carefully planning, tracking, and executing goals, the SMART method ensures that each goal is achievable within a certain time frame. Remember, aim for slow, steady progress—not perfection.

Journaling or writing resolutions down can make them feel more concrete and help with accountability. Consider keeping a journal, using a calendar, or utilizing a goal-setting app to track progress. Studies show that writing down goals significantly increases the likelihood of achieving them. Posting your goals somewhere visible, like on a refrigerator or desk, can serve as a constant reminder.

Be Flexible and Kind to Yourself

Sometimes, preconceived notions or judgments—whether from ourselves or others—can make it difficult to embrace new habits. Remember, resolutions are a guide, not a rigid rulebook. Missing a step is not the end of the world. Instead, reassess your plan and make adjustments as needed. Changing your perspective, including being less judgmental of yourself and others, can make a significant difference.

Start at your own pace. Resolutions don’t have to begin on January 1. Start when you’re ready and have a clear, actionable plan. Success depends on thoughtful planning and persistence. The SMART method builds time into the process, so don’t rush.

Celebrate Small Wins

Engaging in new activities and celebrating achievements—no matter how small—can boost morale and motivation. Congratulating yourself along the way reinforces commitment and releases endorphins, keeping momentum alive.

Avoid spreading yourself too thin. Trying to overhaul every aspect of life at once can lead to burnout. Focus on one goal at a time to increase the likelihood of success. Once a new habit is established, move on to the next goal. By setting specific, measurable, and achievable goals within a realistic timeframe, you can turn aspirations into lasting change.

A Final Wish

So, to everyone reading: Here’s to health, prosperity, and happiness for the year ahead. May we all experience many joyful days and years to come.

Happy New Year! See you in the newsletters and newsblogs.

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Howard Diamond
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Certified Peer Specialist from Long Island.

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