My Coping Skills aren’t Working: Now what do I do?

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When managing our mental health, we all have our go-to coping mechanisms. Perhaps you like to exercise, meditate, or spend time with loved ones. But what happens when these strategies no longer seem to be working? Or, what about when you encounter a new symptom or interpersonal challenge that leaves you feeling stuck and unable to move forward?

If you find yourself in this situation, don’t give up hope. You can try a few things to create new coping strategies that are better suited to your current needs.

  1. Problem-Solve Why Existing Coping Skills Aren’t Effective Anymore

First, it’s essential to take some time to reflect on why your current coping skills are no longer practical. This could be due to changes in your life circumstances or a new symptom you’re experiencing. Try to identify the root cause of the problem without perseverating or getting stuck in negative self-talk.

  1. Discover How to Adapt/Revise Existing Skills to Your New Situation or Symptom

Once you’ve identified the problem, the next step is adapting your coping strategies to your current needs. Perhaps you need to modify your exercise routine, try a new form of meditation, or spend more time engaging in self-care activities that help you feel grounded and centered.

  1. Practice and Troubleshoot Your Revised Skill to Maximize Its Effectiveness

Finally, it’s crucial to practice and troubleshoot your revised coping strategies. This may involve trial and error as you determine what works best for you. Remember that setbacks and mistakes are part of the learning process, so be patient and persistent as you work to find new coping strategies that help you feel better.

It’s worth noting that revising existing coping skills is an important life skill, not just for managing mental health challenges. We all encounter situations where our usual strategies no longer work, and we need to adapt and find new ways forward. It’s a natural part of growth and development, and by embracing this process, we can become more resilient and better equipped to handle life’s ups and downs.

Of course, discussing new coping strategies with your therapist or psychiatrist before implementing them is always important. They can provide guidance and support as you develop new skills to help you manage your mental health and improve your overall well-being.

Remember, setbacks and challenges are a natural part of life, but with the right tools and strategies, you can overcome them and move forward. So don’t give up hope if your usual coping mechanisms aren’t working. Take some time to reflect, adapt, and practice, and you’ll be on your way to finding new strategies that help you feel better and thrive.

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